The Four Intimacies

The Four Intimacies

Roy and Amy are on a mission to model, teach and train others to live a life of love and extraordinary intimacy.

Working together as a husband and wife team, they use cutting edge strategies to effect change in the lives of their clients who want to be intimate verbally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. They provide coaching and resources for you to learn about what intimacy means, how you can experience it in all areas of life.

Clients enjoy the powerful advantage of always having two perspectives and a built-in second opinion on everything. Combining their strengths and individual areas of expertise, Roy and Amy are able to understand your problems quicker and offer a plan to implement solutions faster.

We’ve Been There

Roy and Amy have both personally struggled with and worked through deep rage, anger, forgiveness, eating disorders, divorce and depression. They will never ask you do what they have never done. Don’t let the pretty pictures fool you. What they haven’t earned they have learned.

Parable of the Pit

A hopeless man had made his way into a deep hole and could not find a way out.

A businessman happened to pass by and heard the man calling out for help. The businessman gave him some money and told him to buy himself a ladder. But the man could not find a ladder, so he stayed stuck in his hole.

A doctor walked by and the alcoholic cried out, “Help me, I can’t get out of this hole.” The doctor said, “Take these pills, they will relieve the pain.” The man said thanks, but when the pills ran out, he was still painfully aware that he was stuck in the hole.

A renowned psychiatrist strolled by and heard the alcoholic pleading for help. He stopped and said, “How did you get into that hole? Were you born there? Were you put there by your parents? Tell me about yourself, it will alleviate your sense of loneliness.” So the man talked with him for an hour, then the psychiatrist said he had to leave, but he would come back next week. The man thanked him but realized he was still stuck in his hole.

A priest came by and the alcoholic called out for help. The priest gave him a Bible and said, “I’ll say a prayer for you.” He got down on this knees and prayed for the man, then left. The man was very grateful and thanked the priest for his Bible which he read, but he was still stuck in his hole.

Finally a friend, a real friend, happened to be passing by and heard the poor man’s cry for help. Right away, the friend jumped into the hole with him. The suffering man said, “Why did you do that? Now we’re both stuck here in this god foresaken hole!” But the friend said with a gleam in his eye, “It’s okay, I’ve been here before; I know the way out!”

Their Story

Their story is personal and private. To read about it you may send an email request via our Contact page.

Working together as a husband-and-wife team, we have dedicated our lives to working with couples and individuals to experience a deep love and fulfilling intimacy with God, themselves and the ones they love.

For over 30 years combined, we have seen couples and individuals go from average to phenomenal in every aspect of their life. Our counseling and coaching programs are designed to remove obstacles and help you discover empowering concepts of God, a clear understanding of self and a healthy way to relate to others.
Intimacy is our core desire. We explore intimacy across four key areas. Verbal, Emotional, Physical and Spiritual and hope you experience all four with a deep passion and complete inner peace.

AUTHOR BIOGRAPHY

Dr. Amy Clark is originally from Buffalo, New York, and now lives in Naples, Florida. After several years of leading marriage small groups at her church, she went back to school to earn her doctorate in the Ministry of Christian Counseling. Amy now partners with her husband in a private coaching and counseling practice, where they specialize in relationship and intimacy issues. Roy served as a full-time pastor for ten years and has been coaching couples and individuals for over thirty years. 

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He has worked with everyone from teens to retirees to help them give and experience the love they were created for. He is the author of the Diamond King; the founder of Mentor 1, a non-profit that finds mentors for kids; and an entrepreneur who has started several companies. His heart is to help others achieve their dreams, especially that of loving and being loved.

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Clark Coaching and Counseling serves couples and individual clients in Naples, Bonita Springs, Fort Myers, and Marco Island.